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Premature ejaculation is a bummer.

Sure, every guy liberates the baby-batter early once in awhile, but the overall effect premature ejaculation puts on a man is depressing. No one likes it. The girl involved gets let down and probably won’t be seeing him again. Or, if she’s a first-timer, she’ll forever be plagued by not knowing what could have been good sex. And once word gets around the man is looked down upon forever.

Sometimes a guy just really wants to get laid, but can’t because of his reputation.

However, like any sexual behavior, it can be (and needs to be) learned and understood to control. There’s no genetics involved with lasting longer, just some time and effort taken. There are a few things a man can do curb such a problem:

1) Masturbation. Ever hear of the term ‘edging’? It’s a good way for a person to get acquainted with oneself and practice for a masterpiece of sex. Overcoming the urge to let it out while getting to know yourself will help to overcome a potential demeaning situation.

2) Breathe. Relaxation makes for good sex. Deep, rhythmic breaths and communication with the girl being poked doesn’t hurt. Instead of just going wild and trying bump uglies at 100-mph just take your time, chill out, and think about what is trying to be accomplished.

3) Kegels. Kegel exercises target the pelvic floor muscles that control urination. When you gotta go just start, hold for three seconds, then release again. The impulse to go is always there, but restraint is needed in order to make something good of sex.

Askmen.com says it best at the end of the article: “Premature ejaculation can be easily countered with patience, effort and knowledge.”

If you've noticed the flurry of activity happening here (here and here too) at STD, you might see the relevance.